It’s been several years since I’ve added a post to this blog. So much has happened over these years! Andrew is 14 years old now! Joe is 16 and getting ready to get his driver’s permit. Justin has gotten married and added a wonderful and beautiful girl to our family! And so much more!! I plan to post the updates and catch up on the latest, but there is much too much to do all at once. So stay tuned as I try to re-learn how to blog and share our experiences.
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10 Jun 2009 3 Comments
We had a gathering of local CdLS families this past weekend. We had about 13 families here and it was a lot of fun. It’s always great when we have an opportunity to get together, share stories and laugh (or cry) about our crazy lives. Looking back at the pictures from the day I realized that other than my immediate family, there wasn’t a single person here who I would have known were it not for Andrew. From the other parents to the kids themselves, the siblings, and Andrew’s teachers, therapists, and even doctors…they hold a very special place in my heart and I’m so glad I’ve gotten to know them.
27 Feb 2009 3 Comments
This is our new dog Reagan! She’s a 9 month old black lab and she’s the sweetest thing! We found her on petfinders.com. She was in a “high kill” shelter in Kentucky. The women who brought her up last saturday drove a van up here loaded with about 30 dogs!! They volunteer their time to try to find good homes or foster homes for these dogs so that they are not destroyed. They loaded as many as they could fit to save their lives. Certainly a tremendous thing to do.
Reagan’s story is that her owners had to move and couldn’t take her with them. She had been in the shelter for about 2 months or more before we adopted her. Considering where she had been living, she is absolutely awesome! She’s just a big lap dog, and as you can see, she’s very good with kids. Andrew has tried very hard to get a rise out of her, but she is just so happy to be here, she doesn’t care what he does.
She loves to chase a stick or a frisbee and is working on actually bringing it back to us. I’ve started “clicker training”, which she seems to be responding to very well. She is learning very quickly and can already sit on command, come when called, lay down, and Joe is teaching her to roll over. She is so lovey and loves all the attention she can get. I know, I know….she looks VERY similar to our last dog. That’s just one of the things we love about her. I don’t know how we got so lucky, but she is really a sweetheart!
Joe cried when we picked her up. He had no idea we were going for a dog. He was so happy and they are best friends already.
We’ve been trying hard to keep her off of the furniture. But she looks soooooo comfortable when she’s snuggled on the sofa. We did compromise and allowed her to use the seat at the end of our bed as her sleeping place. I have no idea why she would want to lay there! It’s so narrow and there’s a perfectly good fluffy pillow on the floor. But no! She wants the bench. Okay, okay. (How long do you think before she’s ac tually in the bed???)
19 Feb 2009 2 Comments
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Andrew is 7 1/2 years old.
- He was diagnosed with Cornelia de Lange Syndrome within days of his birth
- He was 4 lbs, 15 oz when he was born and he was not breathing and had a very low heart rate.
- He spent 2 weeks in the NICU.
- He is tube fed. While he loves to taste things, especially strong flavors like doritoes, garlic, lime nachos, etc, he hasn’t mastered the art of chewing, breathing, and swallowing all at the same time.
- He has no speech and communicates mostly with sign language these days.
- He LOVES to learn new things and surprisingly has a great attention span (when it’s something he’s interested in.)
- He LOVES loud noises. The louder the better. (Just found out the volume on our TV can go up to over 90!!)
- When Andrew was diagnosed, we prayed more for his happiness than anything else. Our prayers have been answered tenfold. He is such a happy boy most of the time. Almost always up for a good laugh.
- He enjoys teasing and has a very good sense of humor.
- He loves zippers. When friends come over he always has to zip or unzip their coats. (Thank God he hasn’t attempted the zippers on pants yet! That could be a little embarrassing.)
- Andrew’s favorite things are his bumble ball which he carries around in his mouth, musical and light up toys, a large therapy ball which he’s been chasing around since he was about 2 years old, electric toothbrushes, and did I mention loud noises??
- He goes to a private school where they focus on verbal behavior. He loves school and the woman who works with him the majority of the time. I don’t think there’s another person in the world (besides his dad of course) who I trust with him more than her. (Thanks Maryann!)
- Andrew really loves his bed and has always been a good sleeper (knock on wood). He sleeps with his face buried in the corner and his pillow over his head. I don’t know how he breaths in there! And NO blankets please!
- Andrew used a pacifier till about a year ago. Mostly just to chew on because he’s very oral. When we took it away he became obsessed with holding onto socks. Now, wherever he goes he will almost always be carrying a pair of socks. If you take the socks out of his hands it’s like unplugging him. He just shuts down. Bizarre.
- Andrew is still very small. Even though he is 7 1/2 years old, he is still only wearing a size 4 and weighs just over 30 lbs.
- He has had several surgeries…nissen fundoplication and g-tube placed at ❤ mos old, eye surgery to correct ptosis (droppy eyelids), inguinal hernia repair, ear tubes, tear duct, etc, etc. Lots of time in the hospital.
- The winter seasons are usually difficult for Andrew. He seems to pick up every stomach bug that is out there. However, this year has been different. He’s been really good compared to past years. Maybe the new school, maybe his immune system is catching up, maybe something else. Whatever it is, it’s good to see him feeling so good and so happy this year
- Andrew really enjoys playing with is brother Joe. But he often plays inappropriately by hitting and kicking. Joe loves it, which I don’t understand. It’s cute to watch them interacting. They often play hide and seek as well.
- All kids are blessings. But kids with special needs have a little something extra. Maybe it has something to do with their eternal innocence. Whatever it is, Andrew has it and him being here has made the world a better place.
- Did I mention Andrew likes loud noises?
- He loves to take a bath (I think) and asks for one all the time. But, when you get him in the tub he yells and screams through the whole thing. Sometimes for fun, sometimes because he’s stressed out. Especially when you wash his hair. You might think he’s being attacked if you hear him in there.
- Andrew is a big fan of music and will sit on his dad’s lap to listen to music on the computer or silly songs on you tube for long periods of time.
- Because Andrew doesn’t speak and doesn’t eat I think people underestimate him. They don’t realize how much he understands, what he is capable of and how smart he really is.
- While Andrew is a lot of work and taking care of him can be all comsuming at times, I wouldn’t trade him for the world. There is nothing better than is smile and laughter and nothing worse than when he is in pain. How we were so fortunate to end up with this little angel is beyond me. He definitely ranks among the top three of my favorite kids. (I only have 3 by the way) 🙂